The other day, after relaxation of Covid restrictions, I got the opportunity to take my younger one for his swimming class. He sounded excited during the trip which changed to regret for being there the moment he was ready to get in. Some cajoling from the instructor, did help to get him in, but took a few minutes for him to get back to his state of disappointment. The supervisor, who had been observing the situation, came to me and suggested to change my place as she noticed that Palaash’s moments of disappointments triggered when he saw me and said “in sight in mind”. I have used and heard these words, many times professionally, to be visible to your leaders for better growth but this was the first time I observed the use in an emotional response.
Now, reflect on one of your goals or visions which you are passionate about – maybe opening a restaurant, changing the education system, getting that promotion etc. and have stopped pursuing ahead because there was something in your mind…something in your mind stopping you. That something could be your age, family commitments etc. Whatever, that something is… did you just notice that it is a sight in your mind which is stopping you.
After me getting out of Palaash’s sight, there were no disappointments. There was only focused learning for his swimming lesson. Not only the teacher shared the appreciation for his learning in that 25 minutes but Palaash’s words with excitement were ” Did you see the flips I did in water, wow. I had so much fun” .
Now think, how will you create the focused learning for yourself for the passion you have. mind is the way.
